Starting over. Keeping it real.

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Why I Do What I Do

Posted by on Apr 16, 2015 in Kickass Zen, Realism | 1 comment

Why I Do What I Do

I’m doing this business of me, this coaching if you want to call it, or speaking, I’m doing this because for too long I didn’t do what I was supposed to do. I didn’t listen to my inner gut. I didn’t have the faith in myself or anybody else for that matter to carry out the dreams that I wanted to do.

And probably I didn’t really know what my dreams were. I had to be inspired, I had to be challenged.

Everything happened for a reason. I had a shitty marriage and I talk about it all the time. I really did. I married the wrong guy. But I married him because i loved him at the time and I just chose to be obstinate as a bull. That’s just who I am. He has his faults and I’m not going to blame him, because the demise of our marriage wasn’t just his fault.

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Second Time Around, Can Somebody Be Your Everything?

Posted by on Apr 12, 2015 in Love, Relationships | 0 comments

Second Time Around, Can Somebody Be Your Everything?

I  believe that the second time around, post divorce, that you should look for that person who can be the closest to everything you need, your full wish list. Here is the Catch 22, look and date; but know that you know that one person won’t be your everything.  This is where people get mixed up.

First marriages are all butterflies and rainbows. It’s all or nothing. You think they are wonderful and fabulous and love will cure anything issue and solve anything that may arise. Then, in hindsight, you realize that #1 will never be your everything and in actuality is not the person that you knew and you’re not supposed to be with them. That the seemingly perfect person will never change to be the person that you want them to be. They cant fulfill all your needs, its just not possible, nor a fair expectation.

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Why Complain: Are You Bitching Just To Bitch??

Posted by on Mar 25, 2015 in Absolute Truth, Kickass Zen | 0 comments

Why Complain: Are You Bitching Just To Bitch??

Hi there darlin!

Look, sitting here patiently waiting today and we just must talk about a major issue,

Too often I hear people who complain that they are dissatisfied. They complain about lack of time, lack of love, lack of lust.. whatever it maybe.. they just complain!! Heck, honestly  we all do it at some point.

My answer is always the same..

WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO CHANGE IT?!!

Are you putting 100% of yourself into your life or are you just coasting through? Are you trying to make changes? Really.. stop and think about that… are you truly doing everything you can to make the changes that you want? Are you working toward the life you want to lead? The job ? The love?  Be truthful here, it’s just you and me.

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Tips for a somewhat sane life..

Posted by on Dec 16, 2014 in Life | 0 comments

Tips for a somewhat sane life..

HELLO MY LOVES!!!I have missed you so!! I’ve made a full recovery and am good, if not better, than new!! In my spare time, in which I wasn’t supposed to be doing anything… yeah right :)… ummm HELLO.. It’s ME!!  I have made several keen observations that I have to share with you.

1.   I’m human and I must start acting as such. Therefore I cannot and will not try to do everything any longer. It totally drains me and wreaks havoc on my body.

2.  Money is not everything. My time at home recovery has allowed me to do something I was never able to do… be home with my children and enjoy them! Yes, things are a bit tighter, but I have found ways to work within that.

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Grin and Bear it…

Posted by on Aug 6, 2014 in Realism | 0 comments

Grin and Bear it…

Hi Yall…

Just wanted to fill you in… No,  I haven’t jumped off the edge of the Earth, and no I haven’t succumbed to a mundane boring life. Actually some great changes are occurring and I can’t wait to tell you all about them!  Get prepared for some really good and hot new topics coming along! Creative juices are flowing like crazy around here!!

I have gotten some help and with the assistance of an AHH-Mazing psychologist and some good old RX help. I now have FOCUS!! Come to find out that I’m NOT shit assed crazy! I was right. I have WICKED  over the top ADD that has been almost  incapacitated.  Go figure,  I’m human and the past couple of years have been fun, but have been rough!  Now I will admit,  changes are still in the constructive phase, and I am having some adjustment periods, but so far its great! The constant chatter in my head has subsided and I can actually RELAX!

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